My teenager will refuse to attend.
Many do at first. Show them this page rather than describing it yourself, and use the words above — particularly that nobody reports back to you. If they still say no, leave it a week and mention it once more. A teenager who is sent arrives defended and takes far less from the room than one who chose to come.
Will you tell me what my child said?
No. Not what they wrote, not what they said, not how they seemed. That confidentiality is the reason teenagers speak at all, and breaking it once would end the value of the work. The single exception is safety: if something suggests a young person is at risk of harm, we will act on it and involve the right adult. We tell the teenagers that too, at the start, in plain words.
Is this therapy or counselling?
No. This is coaching on choices, responsibility and self-direction. We do not diagnose, treat, or work with mental health conditions. If a teenager needs that kind of support, we say so and point towards a qualified professional.
Can I sit in?
We ask that you don't. A teenager will not speak honestly about their own choices while a parent is watching, and one silent adult changes what the whole group is willing to say. You will get a short note afterwards about what the group worked on — themes only, never individuals.
What if they don't speak at all?
That's allowed, and it's common. Nobody is called on by name and nobody is made to turn a camera on. Most of the work is written rather than spoken. A quiet teenager who fills in their sheets has done the entire workshop.
Will it reduce their screen time?
We don't promise that, because we don't control it and neither do you. What we have seen is that arguments about the phone get shorter once a teenager has somewhere else in their week that feels like theirs. If a guaranteed drop in hours is what you're after, this isn't the right workshop and we would rather say so.
Is it recorded?
Sessions are not recorded. Teenagers speak differently when they know they're being recorded.
What if we have to miss it?
Tell us at least 24 hours before and we'll move the seat to next date.
Can we get a refund?
If the workshop doesn't do what this page describes, tell us within seven days and we'll refund you in full.